Parent guide · Grade 1 Mandarin · Unit 3
Lesson 3.1 你几岁? How Old Are You?
Written for the parent. The Read aloud parts are written to your child; read them as they are. Do this parts are for you. Answers for you are marked Listen for.
At a glance
- Time
- 3 sessions of 15–20 minutes
- Goal
- Count from 零 (zero) to 十. Ask 你几岁? (how old are you?). Answer 我…岁 (I am … years old).
- You need
- Blocks, cups or Lego
- Paper labels
- A sketchbook or plain paper, and crayons
- A King James Bible
- Worksheet A · the lesson page (it also has a short video (8:31))
Steps
Do this together: Hold up fingers to show how old you are. Now show how old a baby brother or cousin is. Today we learn to ask and answer “How old are you?” in Chinese.
Read aloud: The story. Moses prayed, “Teach us to number our days.” Every year of your life is a gift from God. In China, a child’s first birthday is a big celebration, and long life is a common wish.
Read aloud: How Chinese works. To ask a child’s age, say 你几岁? (you how-many years?). To answer, put the number before 岁: 我六岁 (I am six). For two years old, say 两岁 (liǎng suì), not 二岁.
Read aloud: Say it out loud. Count from 零 (ling) to 十. Then ask everyone in the family: 你几岁?
Do this: Say each word clearly; your child says it back twice. Point to a picture or the real thing when you can.
- 几 (jǐ) [jee (dipping)]: how many (small numbers)
- 岁 (suì) [sway (falling)]: years old
- 零 (líng) [ling (rising)]: zero
- 两 (liǎng) [lyahng (dipping)]: two (before a measure word)

Along the River During the Qingming Festival (detail), Zhang Zeduan, early 12th century (Song dynasty). Image: Wikimedia Commons, public domain Do this: Look at the picture together for a quiet minute before anyone talks.
Read aloud: This is one of the most famous paintings in China. Zhang Zeduan painted a whole city by a river on a scroll more than five meters long, with over eight hundred people, animals, boats and carts. This part shows the busy Rainbow Bridge.
Point and find:
- Count the boats you can see: 一, 二, 三…
- Count the people on the boat.
- Find a donkey or ox.
- What is happening with the big boat’s mast?
Ask:
- “Why are the people on the bridge leaning over?”
- “Which person would you like to be in this picture?”
Show: A friend asks 你几岁? You are seven. Answer.
Say this: “Seven is 七.”
Say this: “Number before 岁.”
Answer: 我七岁 (wǒ qī suì).
Show: How do you ask a little cousin how old she is?
Say this: “How many years: 几岁.”
Say this: “You: 你.”
Answer: 你几岁? (nǐ jǐ suì?)
Do this: Ask out loud. Let your child try first; help only after a real try.
Ask: Say zero in Chinese.
Listen for: 零 (líng).
Ask: Count from one to ten.
Listen for: 一 to 十.
Ask: Say how old you are.
Listen for: 我…岁.
1 more on the lesson page.
Read aloud: Build a tower of blocks for each person’s age.
Steps:
- Ask each person 你几岁?
- Build a tower with that many blocks, counting in Chinese.
- Label each tower with the Chinese number.
- Which tower is tallest?
Tips for you:
- For big ages like Dad’s, count by tens: 十, 二十, 三十…
Done when your child can say:
- I asked 你几岁?
- I counted the towers in Chinese.
Do this: Your child picks one or more; you write the date.
- Draw yourself with candles for your age. Write 我…岁 with your number.
Read aloud: In old China, babies were counted as one year old at birth, and everyone added a year at the New Year. Many families still remember this “traditional age.”
- Saying 我是六岁. Chinese leaves out 是: 我六岁.
- Saying 二岁 for two years old. Say 两岁 (liǎng suì).
Line up stuffed animals. The child asks each one 你几岁? and the parent answers in a funny voice with a number in Chinese. The child holds up that many fingers.
Say this: “Tell me what you learned today.”
Listen for: Count from 零 (zero) to 十.; Ask 你几岁? (how old are you?).; Answer 我…岁 (I am … years old).
So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.
In the Chinese Bible (Chinese Union Version), this verse reads: <span class="zh-block" lang="zh-Hans">求你指教我们怎样数算自己的日子</span><span class="py-line">Qiú nǐ zhǐ jiào wǒ men zěn yàng shù suàn zì jǐ de rì zi</span> Moses asked God to teach us to number our days, so that we use each one wisely.
Spread over the week
3 sessions of 15–20 minutes. Stop while it is still going well.
- Session 1. Warm-up, then read and teach the new idea and the new words. Picture study and show how.
- Session 2. Practice together, then start the project. Finish the project, then the sketchbook.
- Session 3. Narration, the game and the Scripture.